Comments on: When lines cross http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/2012/09/12/when-line-cross/ Parenting without stabilisers Tue, 21 May 2013 17:18:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: Gillian http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/2012/09/12/when-line-cross/#comment-6280 Gillian Mon, 17 Sep 2012 14:57:13 +0000 http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/?p=4809#comment-6280 What a nightmare for you – you have my full sympathy. I don’t know how you could’ve handled it any better to be honest, it sounds like you did everything great. Don’t let it knock your parenting confidence, I suspect you are doing a fantastic job. x

]]> By: Claire Toplis http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/2012/09/12/when-line-cross/#comment-6276 Claire Toplis Sun, 16 Sep 2012 12:18:23 +0000 http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/?p=4809#comment-6276 its such a shame that parents are like this . Who the hell are they to judge.!
I think Mini has done so well . . I wish him luck and hope that this has not out him off.

]]> By: Susan Mann http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/2012/09/12/when-line-cross/#comment-6274 Susan Mann Fri, 14 Sep 2012 14:21:51 +0000 http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/?p=4809#comment-6274 Children are children and they have meltdowns at times. If there is something they want and can’t get it, they do this. No one should judge you or your child, they are children and can have the odd tantrum. I can’t believe someone would act this way. Look at how much he enjoys being on that team, you can’t judge him over 1 incident. You are an amazing mum, your husband is an amazing dad and you have two wonderful boys who are a credit to you both. Hugs xxx

]]> By: Cara http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/2012/09/12/when-line-cross/#comment-6267 Cara Thu, 13 Sep 2012 09:56:29 +0000 http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/?p=4809#comment-6267 Bloody hell Jen, what a nightmare! We have all been there when our child has been ‘the one’, we’ve all judged someone else when their child has been ‘the one’. What a self-righteous person he must be though to be SO unforgiving. Oh to have confidence that he will never have an incident where his child needs people to show a little understanding. You have done all you can at the time and after the event, you should just chalk it up to experience and move on.

Who wrote ‘a child needs your love most when he deserves it the least’? A mantra I have to remind myself of often. Big hugs to you lady, you know you do an awesome job with your children! x

]]> By: Jen Walshaw http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/2012/09/12/when-line-cross/#comment-6264 Jen Walshaw Wed, 12 Sep 2012 22:54:51 +0000 http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/?p=4809#comment-6264 Cass@frugalfamily » I love you, thats all

]]> By: Jen Walshaw http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/2012/09/12/when-line-cross/#comment-6263 Jen Walshaw Wed, 12 Sep 2012 22:54:20 +0000 http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/?p=4809#comment-6263 Crystal Jigsaw » He has pulled his child CJ. I think that some children are so scared that they are perfect when it comes to certain situations, but Mini’s emotions run close to the surface. Good and bad ones. It is what makes him him.

]]> By: Jen Walshaw http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/2012/09/12/when-line-cross/#comment-6262 Jen Walshaw Wed, 12 Sep 2012 22:52:58 +0000 http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/?p=4809#comment-6262 Kerry » A very wise person once told me that we all cry the same amount of tears over a child life, just at different times. This father obviously hasn’t experienced the issues we have, but what goes around comes around.

]]> By: Jen Walshaw http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/2012/09/12/when-line-cross/#comment-6261 Jen Walshaw Wed, 12 Sep 2012 22:52:07 +0000 http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/?p=4809#comment-6261 Kate, WitWitWoo » I think it is all the harder to deal with as I look at Mini and see myself at his age and know the fight he has coming!

]]> By: Jen Walshaw http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/2012/09/12/when-line-cross/#comment-6260 Jen Walshaw Wed, 12 Sep 2012 22:51:34 +0000 http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/?p=4809#comment-6260 Midlife Singlemum » He has moved his son, which is fine by us. Mini is six and I will not have him labeled because some oaf can not deal with his own feelings enough to understand that this is what children sometimes do.

]]> By: Jen Walshaw http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/2012/09/12/when-line-cross/#comment-6259 Jen Walshaw Wed, 12 Sep 2012 22:50:39 +0000 http://www.muminthemadhouse.com/?p=4809#comment-6259 snafflesmummmy » He has pulled his son and moved him to the other Under 7′s team in the club. We have decided to draw a line under it.

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