I love the school holidays. Â I love spending time with my little darlings (are you getting the sarcasm here?), no really I do love spending time with Mini and Maxi, they are actually becoming great company and are fun to be with and I miss them once school starts again. Â So I try to make sure I spend quality time with them once the school term starts.
Do not overschedule kids
This is my biggest tip. The boys have two out of school activities a week, Cubs and Football and I am a huge believer in not filling up kids free time with activities. Â Children need to have freedom and time to unwind after the regimented school day.
Screen free time
We have a rule that screens are turned off at 6pm until the boys bedtimes (apart from movie night). Â This gives us quality time for reading, listening to music, gardening, walking, baking, playing games, jigsaws, arts and crafts or just chatting.
Cook together
One of the times that I love most is when me and the boys or one of the boys spend time in the kitchen together. I cook at least one meal a week with each of them, more and more they are taking charge and I am just directed by them as to what to do.  We menu plan together too.
Eat together
This is one of the most important parts of parenting in my opinion. Â We eat together as a family as often as we can. At the moment that is five nights out of seven and we also have breakfast together too. Â There are so many benefits to sitting at the table together without interruptions (we have a no electronics at meal times rule). We have conversations, debates, chats and tell stories. Even one night a week makes a big difference. Â Make it special.
Insist on family time
This is easy for me as my boys are only eight and nine, but  when I was growing up at least one day at the weekend was designated family time.  We have continued this tradition and spend the weekend as a family.  We try and go out and have an experience one of those day.
Family Game night
One night a week is designated as family game night. Â As soon as the dinner plates are tidied away the games come out and we have competitive fun until bedtime.
Family Movie Night
We also have family movie night one night a week, now this might not always be a movie, it could be a TV show that we all want to watch, but the thing is we watch it together. Â We turn off electronics and grab snacks and cuddle up together.
Family Dog Walks
Since getting Alvin we have walked together more as a family. Â We get outside together more, even if it is just for a ten minute walk. We aim for one short walk a day, this can either be all together or one adult with one child. Â It gives us one on one time with the children and enables us to have a good chat.
I have had this post in my drafts and then KC Edventures posted a fantastic post about how to spend more time with the kids during school and I have to share it too.Â
 


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